Thursday, February 14, 2013

Reflexology for Increased Desire/Libido


Low libido? Reflexology has proven helpful time and time again not only for sexual desire, but also erectile dysfunction, infertility, PMS, and countless other hormone related problems. While clinical sessions are recommended for chronic issues, there are a few key reflexes that can be stimulated at home to help you make the most of your time together.

Brain: It is said that 90% of sex takes place in the brain. To stimulate the brain reflex rub or apply pressure to the fleshy part of the great toe.

Stomach: The stomach is a great erogenous zone. The stomach reflex is found in the center section of the foot. Knead up and down the length of the foot with your thumbs and fingers. This can also bring relief to the digestive tract, making it easier to relax and enjoy your time together.

Solar Plexus: This reflex point is a fantastic one to work to help your spouse relax, forget about the stresses of the day, and live in the moment. It is located near the center of the foot, just below the pad.

Breast and Chest: Many become very relaxed when working the breast and chest reflexes.  It helps to regulate breathing, increasing oxygen levels and blood flow.  Simply "milk" the foot, focusing on the center of the foot to the toes, both top and bottom. Gently hugging and squeezing the foot in this manner can be very pleasurable.  

Reproductive Reflexes: The reproductive reflexes of both genders are found on either side of the ankle. Massaging the heel and around both sides of the foot can improve circulation to the pelvic region.

If you are confused about the location of these reflexes, please take some time to explore the interactive foot chart found to the right of this article.

Make reflexology a regular part of your foreplay and you will both reap the bennefits. Happy Valentines  Day!

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Peppermint Essential Oil

 
Oil of the month: Peppermint!

Peppermint can help with a significant amount of ailments including sinus congestion, headaches, circulation, fevers, digestive issues, concentration, and muscle & joint pain.

Add a few drops to your bath for mild aches and pains,  massage onto your feet for sinus congestion, rub onto the back of your neck and scalp for a headache, or rub directly onto problematic muscles and joints.  Peppermint can be very strong, so be sure to use a carrier oil, especially if using on children.  

Much like lavender oil, peppermint essential oil is soothing in small amounts but becomes a  stimulant in larger amounts.

A word of caution: Peppermint can stimulate the uterus, so please use this oil with caution if you are pregnant.